Monday, August 16, 2010

2010 Camping Trip

I guess I should do a little intro before I begin telling the story of our trip. Believe it or not I had actually agreed to return to the same camping spot from last year near Turkey Run however they were under a severe heat advisory all of last week and we had to change places at the last minute.....and this is how it went.


Day 1-Thursday


Plan: Pick up Heather from work and be on the road between 3-3:30pm. Travel approximately 1.5 hrs to our destination. Set up site, make dinner and relax.


The Very Long Eventful Story: As with everything we left a little late and were on the road around 4pm. We had switched our location at the last minute to a place called Coolsprings Campgrounds in Cassopolis Michigan. The website looked awesome showing a great map of the grounds which included a beach, lake to go canoeing or paddle boating, a petting zoo and many primitive sites. This area was not experiencing the heat advisory that Indiana was under but it was by no means alot cooler. Heather & I being the stubborn ones did not want to cancel the trip because we had been planning it for weeks so we went.


The drive to the place was uneventful this year. It went by rather quickly and before we know it we were driving in this little town of Cassopolis. The lack of population did not bother me because as I have experienced on other camping trips most campgrounds are in the middle of nowhere. So we pull down the main road to our campgrounds and we were already planning to go swimming right after setting up the site and so excited and then we see it. First I see on one side of the road the little office building it was small and not that fancy but it was no big deal after all it was a campground. I then here Steven say "is that the beach?" and we all look over and see this approximately 8ft x 3ft sandy area on this so called lake. I wish for the the life of me we could have found our camera to take a picture because what I am about to describe will not even come close to doing it justice. We pull into the office which was now closed but we had been told that we could check ourselves in and they would come around and collect the next morning. The lady was kind enough to leave us a map of the area showing which sites were open that we could choose from. Now mind you I was told earlier in the week by this office that if we wanted a non-primitive site we should book in advance because they were pretty full but to us that was okay because we wanted to show how strong of a family we are and we were going primitive people. So I pull open this map and she has two....yes you heard it right...two sites marked off as being unavailable. I think this was my here's your sign moment when I should have jumped right back in the truck and left but no again my stubbornness kept me going. We all found it odd that one we were lied to about how many people were staying this weekend but of course had to give them the benefit of the doubt that everyone canceled at the last minute due to heat....yeah of course that was it. After reviewing the map we decided to take a walk into these primitive sites to see which one we wanted. Heather is chanting the entire time I want the furthest one into the woods while the others with their thinking caps on were trying to plan this out logically. Heather is a little over ambitious when it comes to trying to prove that we can handle anything. I mean don't get me wrong I love her faith in us but sometimes reality does not sink in until she is absolutely miserable so we gently remind her and come to a compromise that seems to benefit everyone. These primitive sites are only able to be reached by hiking to your site and it is in a very heavily wooded area. We had originally thought we would want to be up by this creek but that was short lived when we realized we would have to drag all of our gear up there and it was at least a 15 minute hike. After walking for a while we settled on site 42 which was about a 5 minute hike into the woods from our car and the shower house.


After we settled on a site we decided to take a walk of this campground to check out all of it's wonderful features as shown on their website before we unloaded the truck. So we hiked back to the office to fill out the form showing which site we chose. I did forget to mention that the humidity was unbelievable and in the maybe 20 minutes were were walking around we were soaked with sweat. I remember clearly while standing on the porch feeling beads of sweat roll down my back. I can tell you that I HATE sweating. There is only one time when sweating is appropriate and that is when I am working out. When I am just walking around and my back is soaked through my clothing my irritability level rises to a point where I can turn on anyone in a moments notice. I keep a smile on my face because after all this was my idea and I had to keep telling Steven who hates heat that everything will be fine and it will not be that bad. I can see on his face he almost has this gloating look of I told you so but because of my pride I was not about to let him see that he was right. I just said man I am sweating my butt off and it is hot and we all agreed.


We cross the street to check out this "lake". The beach area as stated was very small but the kicker was the lake. In all honesty the lake or should I say pond looked like noone had used it for years. You know when you go into a swamp and you see all of that thick green algae sitting on top well that was this pond. I am not even close to exaggerating how disgusting it was. Thick sections of green algae and seaweed through the entire thing. It was the nastiest thing I had ever seen and these morons had advertised it as a beach to swim at. I believe now is the moment where I began to realize that the website had to have been staged or set up when the place first opened. We later came to the conclusion that the ever so happy families and children in the pictures had to be the owners own family because noone could say they were happy staying at this place the way we saw it...in fact noone was staying at this place while we were there. So we walked to the petting zoo which was about 3-4 goats, one baby bambi, a rabbit and probably the family dog all in this little make shift zoo. The next sign that we should have ran would be the fact that the animals seemed scared to death of humans...hmm could it be that this zoo had never been visited....I think so.

Heather & I are now upset and Christopher & Steven are trying to reassure us that everything will be fine...my how the tables have turned. We pull up to the area we are allowed to unload our trucks and being the hike down to our site. Talk about a pain in the butt. First we NEVER pack light for camping and second it is all down hill through a dirt/sand road...you ever tried rolling a heavy cooler through sand....well it is not easy and not fun. We get everything unloaded and Heather & I start laying out the tent. She & I had practiced putting up the tent at home and it took 20 minutes to get everything set up so we knew we had this in the bag.....wrong! I think the level of heat in the air seemed to mess with our sense of direction or the desire to follow directions but we put all of the poles in the wrong slots the first time. Not being our ever so cheerful selves at this point we yanked them out and put them in the right way. As we are mumbling not so nice things about this tent under our breath Christopher & Steven decide to start a fire so we can eat later. The website states we are allowed to use wood we find on site as long as we do not use an electrical device to remove said wood. Steven brought his hatchet and before I know it Christopher is hacking away at wood. He is 16 years old and responsible so no thought was given to it until I hear "oh crap I cut my leg." I remember thinking you have got to be kidding me as I flip around trying not to show the panic in my face thinking he hacked his leg off. I am laughing so hard I could cry right now because you just had to see the look on his face. He was trying so hard not to look worried but it was not working. I took a look at it and although he cut it pretty good it was not bad. We cleaned it out with water really good, soaked it with ice, put neosporin on it and a band aid and we were all good. We finished setting up the tent, literally and angrily threw everything inside and started working on dinner. Steven starts building fire and the girls head to the bathroom.

We hiked up the hill and were rather surprised to see how bright it was outside of the woods. We go to the bathrooms and reluctantly open the stall doors expecting the worst but were however pleasantly surprised that they were very clean. Now mind you we were comparing this to the last campground we stayed at so don't get excited thinking we were in the Ritz Carlton or something it was just tolerable. The showers were a little better then the other place as well but we figured that was because noone ever used them. The fact that we could actually use the bathroom without having a complete meltdown was exciting but overshadowed by the fact that the bathroom felt like a sauna. The air was stifling to say the least. We head back to our site which is now pitch black with our lanterns and fire lighting up our area. Steven had a hard time getting the fire going but finally managed to get it to stay lit so we could roast our hotdogs.

None of us are a big fan of hotdogs but after a long night of setting up it was the fastest thing I could think of to eat that first night. We have not had the best luck lately with Oscar Meyer hotdogs so I had a coupon, I know all you coupon ladies are cheering me on right now, for Ballpark hotdogs. I was so happy when my grocery store had them on sale for 88 cents considering they are typically 2.50 a pack so when I had a coupons for 1.50 off of three packs the deal was very worth it for me. We had never purchased them before and thought it might not cause so much yucky after effects that Oscar Meyers do to us. We started off roasting our hotdogs when princess diva as we sometimes call Heather drops the first one in the fire. I am already so irritated at this point that I could throw a hotdog at her but I calmly give her another one and go about my business. We all sit down to eat and then decide we want to take a shower to wash off all of the nasty sweat and to cool off to be able to sleep.


Heather & I go for a shower first while the guys stay at camp. I could not get the water cold enough to try and cool down my body it was that humid out. We shower and dry off and then dry off and dry off......you see the humidity was so bad in this shower house that no matter how many times I dried off I still felt wet. Well as many of you know when you are wet getting clothes on is next to impossible without jumping around like an idiot which is exactly what we did. Wiggle this, hop around on this foot, slam into the wall and yes we were dressed...sweating again but we were dressed. Nothing beats a shower and feeling clean but you have really not lived until you take a shower, feel all clean and walk to your site and feel like you never took one in the first place...you should try it sometime. Steven & Christopher head up to shower while we watch the site....I still have not figured out what we were watching the site for because there was noone around to steal anything but I guess it made us feel safe.


Now here is where those of you who know Heather & I know how much we love our scary movies. You can ask anyone who has watched them with me personally I have no problem watching a scary movie and going straight to bed...nothing really gets to me because after all it is just a movie. Now moving forward to sitting in the middle of the woods, cannot see anything around you and hearing all kinds of snapping or falling twigs it raises my awareness to a whole new level. I look at Heather and say "moments like this remind me of why we should not watch movies about cabins in the woods" to which she agreed. We kept hearing this cat like sound and quickly realized we had raccoons approaching our site due to the smell of our hotdogs we had just cooked. I started banging things around to make sure they were scared away. Freaked out was putting it mildly and we could not wait for the guys to come back. No offense to the men in our group but none of us seem very tough when it comes to this situation but for some reason knowing a man was around made me feel secure but I am not sure that had someone come after us I would have not been left behind while they all ran for their lives.


We were all kind of creeped out by the sounds of possible animals coming to kill us for our food so we decided to load everything into the tent and play a game. We played a game of uno, made sure the tent was closed up, put the gun and hatchet in a quick to get to place and decided to call it a night. I had a the brilliant idea of stacking to air mattress on each other to offer more support and at first it was rather brilliant until the lower mattress partially deflated and we were launched upwards like we were sleeping on the side of a hill. We all are having a hard time falling asleep due to the creepy sounds and the heat. I am just about to fall asleep when I hear "aunt Jenn" I pretend to ignore her request for my attention then I hear her moan and I say "what" to which she replies "I have to go to the bathroom". I think I could have reached over and killed her at this point because I was almost asleep and it was dark outside and I did not want to hike to the bathroom. I told her to just hold it to which she replied it is filling up, meaning her bladder, and she can't hold it anymore. I turn on the light and we are about to exit the tent when it happens. Steven jolts up out of a dead sleep and starting freaking out. Now to spare my hubby the embarrassment I will not go into details of this said freak out but lets just say we all kind of sat there for a moment just looking at him like what in the world is going on. I am still not convinced he was fully awake but either way he was not feeling well. My husband can get severe anxiety in stressful situations and I would say that this had been one of those situations. He kept saying I am freezing but sweating to death which I knew meant he had a fever but to spare us the drama I said oh no you feel fine. I gave him a rag soaked in cold water and made him lay down. His back was soaked with sweat but his body was freezing. I was not about to haul everything out of there that night so I layed him down and told him to relax while Heather & I hiked to the bathrooms.


Heather goes to the bathroom for what seemed like an eternity...I guess she was not kidding when she said it was filling up. We hike back to our sites one of us pointing a flashlight to one side and the other to another to make sure nothing is wait to jump on us. We run back in the tent and lock it back up. Steven is still not feeling well and just about that time Christopher who has been asleep this entire time sits straight up and says "I think it was the hotdogs cuz I feel like I am going to be sick". I give him some pepto and he lays back down. Steven is now calm and we all lay down while he fumbles around the tent and as he decides to take some pepto himself. He takes a sip and the next thing I hear is oh no and then he spews in a bag that I had so nicely given him in case he got sick not knowing there was a hole in the bottom of the thing. He realized as he is puking that there is a hole so he tries to hold the next round in and get the tent open. This stupid tent has four zippers to get open in order to get out and he can't get it fast enough and he spews all over the wall of the tent. We later discovered that Heather saw him struggling to get out of the tent but decided that her rest was more important then helping her sick Uncle. I lay there and am saying to myself why in the world is this happening right now. The smell is unreal so I get up and start cleaning up all of the puke on the bottom of the tent and walls. Steven finally gets it open and his head is out of the tent and his butt is inside while he is puking again. He has now been kneeling in his own vomit and has it all over his arms. I am trying to be a loving wife not showing my complete irritation at this point and I start cleaning everything up. He keeps apologizing and I keep telling him it is okay he did not know this would happen. I was very proud of myself for maintain my composure and controlling my gag reflex as I cleaned up this mess. I can say that hotdogs are out for this family for a long time if not forever after what I saw and onions might be a close second. After everything is cleaned up including Steven it is now well past 2 in the morning and we get back in the tent to go to sleep.


We all finally doze off but not without waking hourly throughout the night. We slept until about 8 the next morning.....and yes this was all the first day.



Day 2: Friday


The Plan: NONE


The Story: We had originally planned to camp for three nights this year but after the night we just experienced and the realization that we have absolutely nothing to do at this place we narrowed it down to one night.

Steven started the fire again to make breakfast. Heather & I ran up and took our showers while they got the fire going and again spent a good portion of time jumping around to get our clothes on. We head back down and the fire is nearly ready to start cooking. For some reason this girl seems to think she needs to be Ms. Betty Crocker on camping trips and plans these way too extravagant meals that require alot of prep work and cook time. I had planned a breakfast skillet that required three...yes three pans to cook everything in and then it is all put together. The potatoes and peppers took forever to cook as did the bacon. I believe this skillet takes me roughly 25-30 minutes to start and be ready to serve at home but this took well over an hour to get to our plates. Heather was so hungry she decided to start eating smores for breakfast considering we were going to miss out on it after today and thought she would cram her whole camping weekend into one hour. Once breakfast was finished we started tearing down everything. I was again sweating at this point and not happy about it. Okay so everything is packed back up and now we have to haul this stuff five minutes up a hill to the truck. Oh yeah and while we were packing up the host of the campgrounds decided to pay us a visit to get me to sign off that my life was in my own hands while on her property and give us our change from the money I left for her. I told her we would not be staying due to the heat and my husband being sick to which she replied "that is one thing about camping there is no air conditioning"....I seemed to sense a hint of sarcasm in her voice but blew it off thinking that it was just the heat messing with my word processing skills. She then informed me that they do not give refunds but would gladly credit my account for a future visit. I think my look of do you really think I will be back and the dead silence got my point across and she so kindly climbed back into her little golf cart and drove away. I did not mind walking away from $20 bucks and honestly she could not have offered me enough to relive another night like last night so keep it and go clean your pond lady is what I was thinking.

So we haul everything up the hill and start loading the truck. Once everything is hauled back up Steven & Christopher head off for a shower while Heather & I enjoy some water and rest. We were now getting hungry for lunch so we decided to hit Chikfila in South Bend and then on to Shipshewana to see if we can find a hotel out that way to stay in for the night. We ate and then we drove for about an hour and arrive at the waterpark hotel they have there. After finding out that it would be $224 bucks to stay for the night we decided that was too much to pay and proceeded to check into other places. You know this Amish little town are highway robbers let me tell you. Every hotel was outrageous there. We went to a little place that sells homemade pretzels grabbed one for the road and settled on Elkart Indiana at the Jameson Inn. Steven & I stayed there one weekend for a short getaway and it was very nice and very affordable plus they had a pool.

We arrive at our hotel and all know that in order to go into the hotel we have to unpack all of this crap just to get to our clothing. We have been in the car for around three hours at this point, had barely slept the night before and now we had to unpack everything again and it was hot. Heather opens the hatch and stuff starts falling out which instantly puts me in a bad mood. The latern bottom fell out and batteries are rolling all over the parking lot. We get them put back together and start pulling everything out. Steven can see that I am getting really angry at this point because I am throwing things over my head not caring where they land so he kindly steps in and tells me to go inside and let him handle it....love his patience when I am at my breaking point. We haul out the suitcase with our clothing, our shower bag, and the coolers with food so they do not spoil. We drag it to our hotel, turn the ac to 65 degrees because we were burning up, shred our clothes and put on bathing suit and jump straight into the pool. Water has never felt so good as it did in that moment. It completely calmed my nerves and relieved the stress of the last 24 hours and made it to where we could finally laugh at what we had been through.

After the pool we order a pizza, watched a movie on tv and we went to bed. I must have been exhausted because I do not recall waking up at all in the night and then Christopher informed me that I was breathing so hard, like an air matress being deflated in his words, that he could not sleep.

Day 3: Saturday

The Story: As you can see there were no plans after the first night we were just so stressed that we decided what we were doing at the last minute. Today we decided to go home early. We had someone watching the animals until Sunday but we all just wanted to be home. We checked out at 10am and were home by noon. Yes if you were paying attention we did not make it an entire 48 hours on this trip and yes all of the above happened in that short amount of time.

Conclusion: I believe we have all agreed that we are not campers. We tried so hard to convince ourselves that we can do anything no matter how hard we are tough enough to do it. Lets face it folks we are not. Don't get me wrong when the place and weather is right camping is alot of fun but it requires alot of planning and work. My problem is I think and plan it out too much. I seem to think feeding my family donuts and milk for breakfast is mean and that I need to make them bacon and eggs...spoiled brats! I also seem to think that we need to bring our entire house into the woods. Literally the only thing not in the woods was our pets, appliances and our beds other then that we were good to go. I am a planner by nature and I make lists...yes I am one of those people. When plans go aray I do not handle it well but I am learning to adapt.

Steven believes he is Fire Marshall Bill (only Chris will get this) and can whip up a fire in no time flat in order to cook a full course meal. He & I do not think on the same level when it comes to planning. He has his pace and trust me mine is totally different.

Christopher is the calm one who seems to stare at all of us in disbelief when things start going down hill. I know he will never admit it but even though we are a bunch of nuts he loves hanging out with us. He also has an answer to everything which at times will drive you crazy. For instance when you see the green pond and realize that we can't swim in it he comes up with something from Discovery that he saw about how the green algae can been good for your skin or something crazy along those lines. Oh and just to be clear because he will correct me when he reads this he did not say that about it being good for your skin I am giving you an example because honestly when I was so hot I did not care what Discovery or Mother Nature had to say about algae all it meant to me is no relief from this horrible weather. He is really good and remembering exactly what he said so I want to clarify this for his own peace of mind.

Heather seems to have a faith in us when it comes to anything. You love it and hate it at times. She also seems to think she is not a little princess when it comes to dirt but I hate to break it to her she is very wrong. She cannot handle bugs, dirt, hard labor, or sweating so why she wants to go camping all the time amazes me. I give her credit for wanting to try something different.

As for all of us we need to just realize that camping is not for us. I am sure we will go again, in fact we had to switch our deposit on the first place to October in order not to lose that deposit, but we have changed the criteria for going. New rules are as follows:

1. If it sounds to good to be true....it is.
2. If we or noone we know has not been to this place we will not go
3. If the weather is going to be over 80-83 we will not go
4. We will eat food that is easily prepared or out of a box and love it. :)
5. We will always have a backup plan

This trip was not fun in the least bit. We now can sit back and laugh about it but had anyone laughed during that moment they probably would not be alive. At least we are making memories, may not be very fun but at least we are making them.

Friday, October 16, 2009

Forgiveness

Thought this was a pretty powerful video on forgiveness...hope you like it.


Monday, August 24, 2009

Camping Adventure

I figured that I have not posted on here in a while so I thought I would share our first ever family camping trip adventure we had this past weekend. Let me first start by saying that yes I am a big princess when it comes to being clean so this was a challenge for me but it was my idea to do this in the first place.

Day One-Friday

The Plan: Be on the road by 5pm, traveling approximately 2.5 hours to campsite, have about 30-40 minutes of daylight to set up site, eat and enjoy the night.

The Facts: Left the house at 6pm, traveled nearly 3 hours due to traffic, had no daylight to set up site, did not eat and did not enjoy the night.

The story: As with all of our family trips we are NEVER on time so why I thought we would be this time is beyond me. I guess I have high hopes that for once we will get it right but obviously this was not the weekend for that. We are on the road for maybe 30 minutes and we hit construction and a complete standstill. Okay keep thinking positive if we sit here for this amount of time and go about 5 miles over the speed limit we will be fine....WRONG! Traffic was longer than expected and potty breaks were more than usual so the time quickly passed us by. Our plan was to go to Turkey Run but they were full so we decided to stay a half mile down the road at Cherokee Valley Campgrounds. I of course wanted to see how rough we could handle it and asked for no electric, no water and the most remote primitive lot they had. We arrived just a half hour shy of the place closing for the night and checked ourselves in. It is now completely dark and the lady did not exactly give us the best directions to our site so we nearly ran over a whole group of Amish kids trying to find out way to it. We pull up to our site and she was not kidding when she gave us primitive. We were the last site on the edge of huge ravine that dropped off and was covered in trees. We park the car just right with the brights on so we can see what we are doing and pull out the tent. We have never put this tent together in our lives so we all take a corner and lay it out on the only flat section of our site without rolling down the ravine and killing ourselves. After about an hour of redo this and go find that the darn thing is finally up. We all needed to use the restroom so we started walking. Now here is where I will tell you that this girl does not do outhouses and is not good with public bathrooms but I was prepared for what I thought would be the worst. With our site being so far in the back they had outhouses about two minutes from our site....let me think um no so we keep walking. We then approach a cute little red bathroom area about five minutes from our site and walk up. I will not disgust you with the details but if this was supposed to be an upgrade from the outhouse they were way off...so we keep walking. We are now nearly a half mile from our campsite and this little white building says Shower house. We are all now seriously wondering what kind of mess we had gotten ourselves into as we approach. First off the shower house has three stalls and three shower stalls for nearly 60-70 campsites...hmm do you see something wrong with this picture? Second they were so run down and nasty you can't even imagine. The toilets were fairly clean but everything around them was not. Heather decided to see what was in store for us shower wise and oh my it was so disgusting. We all finish up and head back to our sites thinking about how not fun this will be in the morning and praying no one needs to go to the bathroom during the night. It is now midnight and we were not about to start a fire so we pulled out what we needed and decided to have a snack before going to bed. Christopher decides he wants milk and oreos so I pour him, Heather and Steven a glass and just as soon as I do Steven drops the lantern and dumps it all over the tent. Now this just adds to the already wonderful moods we are all in as we scramble around in the dark trying to put the lantern back together. Okay lantern is back together, milk cleaned up and we sit and have a snack. We are all so irritated by this point that we decide to go to bed. I have never in my life suffered from insomnia but tonight was the night for me. I am not sure if it was the fact that we were freezing to death, the air mattress was rapidly deflating from the cold, the very loud drunks on the other side of the campground, the rain falling all night long, or just the complete fear of what have I gotten myself into but I could not sleep at all. I literally laid there and stared at the ceiling of the tent all night counting about 10,000 sheep forwards and backwards with no luck. I have no idea the time I just know we laid down around 1am and I am thinking it is probably 3am when I hear a lady start screaming at her kid to shut up and go back to sleep and say it is 5am and it is too early for her to be awake. I am now thinking I have laid here looking at the top of the tent for 4 hours. I finally doze off about 2o minutes later and wake up to some guy yelling good morning to his buddies and it is now 7am......it is going to be a long weekend.

Day Two-Saturday

The Plan: Shower, Cook Breakfast, Go on a Canoe trip, Relax at Campsite

The Story: After being rudely awakened by the screaming man I now needed to make the forever long hike to the restrooms. Heather was now awake and we decide we would beat the rush of girls to shower so we grabbed our gear and off we went. We came up to the shower house and there it was a line of girls waiting to shower...AHHH. We joined the line and were rather amazed at how many women really think they need to look beautiful while camping...hello people we are in the middle of nowhere, there is no one to impress but the bugs laying on the ground beside you so what is the point really. After waiting for three very nice but very vain Amish girls to get all showered, dressed and primped Heather gets into the first shower stall and turns and looks at me with this pray for me look of terror on her face. We both had a plan of how to shower properly which included DO NOT take off your crocs, DO NOT touch the walls or the shower curtain, get in and get out. Let me say that crocs have always been my favorite but after seeing these showers they are now my new trusty sidekicks. I hurried through my shower making sure that none of the nasty water came anywhere near my mouth, dried off and got dressed. We both were excited to be done and back at our site. My husband and Christopher had a nice fire going so we all started to make breakfast. We had bacon, eggs and toast and after cleaning up and the guys showering got ready for our canoe trip. Steven & Chris shared one canoe and Heather & I in another. Steven & Chris's canoe seemed to have an issue with staying straight because they spent the entire trip spinning around in circles, under big rocks and going sideways while slamming into several other canoes. One canoe guy asked them if they were doing the bmx xtreme version of canoeing....Heather & I pretended we did not know them and kept on going. We finally finished our trip and pulled up to the sand bar to unload and now these guides expect Heather & I to carry this heavy thing up a big set of stairs so they can load it. We stumble and nearly break out necks getting it up the stairs but we made it. Canoe trip successful and fun. We stopped at a little place called the Hole in the Wall to grab something to eat because we were starving and by the name of the place it did not sound promising. We were however very impressed with the food and thought it should be submitted to the show Diners, Drive ins and Dives (this being the dive) as it was very good food. We spent the rest of the day at the campsite playing games, relaxing, making hotdogs for dinner and smores for dessert and hit the sack around midnight. I actually slept most of the night but was ever so rudely awaken by three drunks fighting over on another end of the grounds. I seem to recall a sign saying quiet hours from 11-7 or you will be asked to leave but I guess us primitive folks were exempt from these rules. They finished their fight and I went back to sleep for a bit...up again at 8am.

Day Three-Sunday

The Plan: Showers, Breakfast, Pack up the truck and Hiking at Turkey Run before heading home.

The Story: We went and completed our "wonderful" showers and were surprised to be the first ones there this morning. After showering Heather & I made breakfast while the guys showered and nearly burned down the whole forest with our bacon grease fire. Why are guys so much better at fires than girls? We finished breakfast just as the guys were walking back to the site and ate a somewhat burnt breakfast. We cleaned everything up and loaded the truck. We drove to Turkey Run State Park, grabbed a map, used the very clean restrooms, grabbed water and took off on our hiking adventure. Turkey Run has I think 12 hiking trails in all that are graded on the map by level of difficulty from moderate to very rugged with miles totally around 15 when you complete them all. Well as many of you know I am trying to lose weight so I say lets do them all knowing we would not have time but then we settled on doing only the ones that were rugged to very rugged for the most fun and exercise. We started at trail 3 which was listed as very rugged and heard people talking that this was supposed to be the hardest of all of them. We hiked through big boulders, down into these huge vallies and up this big huge rocks and yeah we were impressed but did not think it was that big of a deal (note we were still full of energy at this point). We kept going on 3 other trails listed as rugged and although we were getting tired, legs were hurting we decided to take the last trail that was listed as very rugged. Whomever told those poor people on trail three that it was the hardest had obviously not been on trail 9. The trail started with three sets of ladders you had to climb down to get way down inside these huge rocks. I for one hate ladders so this was not fun for me but I faced my fears and went down them shaking legs and all. We hike out and ended up at the "punch bowl" which is basically a hole full of water looked at that and had to turn around and go back up the ladders to get out. You then continue on down tons of stairs back into the bottom of all the rocks and there we see it. The continuous line up the rocks of 140 stairs. Now these are not just any stairs there are very steep and sometimes a huge step up and at this point we are all so exhausted that I think we could have nearly cried when we saw them. So up we go huffing and puffing the whole way. After about two breaks we reached the top and sat down to try and regain our composure and get back into a normal breathing pattern before we passed out. We decided that we had hiked enough and planned our trip out of this place now renamed "hell on earth" and off we hiked. The trip out seemed much longer than we had hoped and ended up being nothing but stairs up and down the whole way but we finally made it out and could barely stand on our feet at the end. We were filthy, exhausted, hungry and thirsty. All in all we hiked for about 4 hours and covered between 6-7 miles of this enormous park. We grabbed lunch and started the trip home. Steven nearly fell asleep while driving so I took over and drove the rest of the way home. We unpacked the car, took showers, guys ate something small and Heather & I crashed.

Needless to say I am very sore today and extremely tired but we did have alot of fun. We plan to make camping a regular thing as it is nice to get away from it all. No phones, no tv and just enjoy nature. We will however not be staying at the same place next time as I cannot handle another trip in those bathrooms. I am happy to say I lost three pounds while we were gone so that was good. I will say that even though I am sore I would go hiking again today as it was alot of fun. Next time we want to stay at Turkey Run...they seem to know how to keep things clean. :)

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

30 (Stole the idea from Beth)

Saw this on Beth's page for when she turned 30 so I thought I would join the fun...now that we are both the big 30!! Man times flies.

1. My hair was nearly straight until my sister cut it in 7th grade and now it is very curly no matter how long it is.
2. My father died when I was almost two and my mom when I was nineteen.
3. My mom remained single until I was sixteen and she married a missionary.
4. My husband and I met by accident online
5. I have a 15 year old stepson
6. I am terrified of spiders
7. I always wanted to be a child phychologist....boy am I way off track.
8. My eyes are blue but will turn light green depending on what I am wearing.
9. I started living on my own at 16 years old.
10. I work for builders/developers and manage a total of 13 accounts.
11. I would love to open an orphanage/children's home someday
12. My husband is French Canadian and speaks french (love it)
13. My sisters are everything to me and I would be lost without them.
14. I have 3 sisters, 2 step-sisters and 5 step-brothers. Total of 29 nieces and nephews between them all.
15. I love the smell of fresh cut grass
16. My husband is terrified of needles and it is a HUGE ordeal when we have to go to the doctor
17. I desperately want to be a mom
18. I love clipping coupons, saving money, and my new once a month cooking addiction
19. I struggle daily with my weight loss and feel very defeated at times.
20. My wedding ring holds the diamonds from my mother's wedding rings. We had them reset into silver to make them our own but to carry hers with me forever.
21. I love thunderstorms
22. I have a true passion for helping those in need. I absolutely love it.
23. I am crazy obsessive about my house being dirty. I cannot stand coming home to a filthy house I get really crabby.
24. I love cooking & baking. My husband is spoiled by variety as we typically eat 3 or more new recipes each week. I have a HUGE collection of recipes.
25. I love entertaining in my home. I may get stressed out getting it ready but I honestly love hosting parties.
26. I am a licensed real estate broker.
27. My husband & I talked and visited each other for a month shy of six years before we were married. Last February was ten years of being together.
28. My favorite color is pink
29. My favorite food is chicken
30. We have 2 dogs (203lb-English Mastiff & 82lb-Bull Mastiff), 2 cats, 3 snakes, & 2 beared dragons. Yes we LOVE animals and no my house does not stink....refer back to item 23. :)

Thursday, April 16, 2009

New Savings Blog

Check out my new savings blog I just started. Enjoy!!

http://mysavingadventure.blogspot.com/

Sunday, January 4, 2009

New Year Reflection

I hope you all had a wonderful holiday season and are prepared for a brand new year. I cannot believe how fast the past year went by but I will say I am glad it is over. 2008 was a rather busy year for our household and I am hoping that 2009 will bring in a season of rest and re-organizing of our time.

This past year brought with it alot of remodeling, work, school, new church, new family member in our home and not enough time in the day to fit it all in. I am ashamed to admit that I was not the best steward of my time this past year and it left me rather frazzled at times. I have learned alot about myself this past year some were hard lessons, some were painful and some were eye opening. One thing I have been noticing for years but have put aside due to my own stubbornness is my inability to say no or when enough is enough. I am so much like my mother in this area bless her heart. I will say that this past year has really brought this "issue" to the top of my list of things to "fix" this year.

I think sometimes as a woman I have this unrealistic expectation of what the perfect wife, employee, Christian, sister and friend should be. Always having a made from scratch meal, perfectly clean home, involved in numerous ministries at church, always being at every jewelry party are just some of the constant nags in the back of my mind. I must say it is so great to have a husband who balances me out in this area. He is very laid back and generally trust my judgement but there are times when he says enough already. I know alot of women don't like that but I LOVE it because then I can blame him, hahaha just kidding. No seriously sometimes I don't realize how stressed I am until he points it out. I must say I am truly blessed in having a husband who helps out a ton around the home and cooking. We both work together to help each other with work, school and the home. We both feel it is a joint venture to make our house run and we both live in it so we both contribute to the work. I think this area of perfectionism is something alot of women struggle with and probably will for the rest of our lives.

I have decided to actually write down my goals for 2009 to make myself more accountable and here are a couple of them:


1. Weight Loss: GRRR this seems like a yearly goal but I am determined to get it right this time. I have been really praying about this for a while and I have better understanding of my issues with this (one of the painful lessons mentioned above) so I am confident this year will be successful. I believe this will help in the pregnancy area so we can finally start a family.

2. Debt Loss: I have been working thru the Dave Ramsey Financial Freedom book and what a motivation it is to be a good steward of your money.

3. Time Management: I want to make the best of my time and not spend it working or doing useless activities.


These are just a couple of them that I thought I would share and ask for your prayers. I look forward to a very full and less stressful 2009.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Kmart....Again!!

Kmart is at it again with their double coupons which means Jennifer is at it again as well....haha! Unfortunately I do not have a picture because by the time we got home last night it was late and I was too tired to worry about it. I will say this is the best Kmart trip I have had to date and the first time my husband accompanied me on one of these double coupon trips.



Anyway....here is what I purchased:



Honey Nut Cheerios (2)
Reeses Peanut Butter Cup Cereal (2)
Cinnamon Toast Crunch (2)
Cocoa Puffs (2)
Crest Toothpaste (2)
Resolve Carpet Cleaner (3)
Pedigree Dog Treats (1)
Ziploc Containers (2)
Palmolive Clear Dishsoap (2)
Palmolive Dishsoap (4)
Kleenex Lotion Tissue (1)
Gain Fabric Softner (1)
Febreze Air Spray (1)
Pledge (4)
Glade Fabric Spray (1)
Scotch Sponges (2)
Whiskas Treats (2)
Chew Lotta Dog Treat (1)
Lifesavers Bagged Candy (1)
Aquafina Water Bottle 20 oz (1)
Betty Crocker Fruit Gushers (3)
Betty Crocker Warm Delights (2)
Betty Crocker Potatoes (2)
Betty Crocker Cookie Mix (2)
Betty Crocker Frosting (2)
Sue Bee Honey (1)
Nestle Baking Chips (3)
Progresso Chicken Broth (1)
French Worcheshire Sauce (1)
Jello Pudding Singles (1)
Healthy Choice Soup (3)
Healthy Choice Single Serve Pasta (1)
Smuckers Apple Butter (1)
Smuckers Grape Jelly (1)
Starkist Creations Tuna (1)
Pillsbury Cinnamon Rolls (3)
Pillsbury Frozen Bag Dinner Rolls (1)
Pillsbury Refrigerated Cookie Dough (2)
Country Crock Light Butter (2)
Nestle Refrigerated Cookie Dough (2)



Total Items Purchased: 72


Total Before Coupons: $163.96


Total After Coupons: $69.61


Coupon Total: $94.35



My husband just stood there with his mouth open like you did not just save almost a hundred dollars....it was funny. If you break it down I paid under a dollar for each item although there were several items that were free after coupons. I did go over my weekly budget but with the double coupons I am willing to go a little over.



Last week I hit a great boneless chicken breast sale and purchased seven packages of chicken for $18 bucks. We eat chicken at least once a week so we should be good for nearly two months! My goal is to live off of our stockpile this winter and not to have to go grocery shopping except for staple items like Milk and bread. I have asked for a bread maker for Christmas so maybe I will get it and I can start making my own bread which will be even more savings.



I don't know how everyone else is doing but working in the building/development industry is really slow right now so I need the comfort of knowing if work gets cut back we are okay for a few months on groceries. I would love to hear ways you guys are cutting back or your coupon savings deals. Good luck and happy bargain hunting!!!!

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